Posted on December 28th, 2010
Define the word “dignity.” Is it something you can describe easily with words, or is it more of a personal feeling? Advocate on Aging Deborah Dolan has her own definition of the word based on what she has learned from her personal and professional experiences.
“I define dignity as meeting someone where he or she is psychologically, physically and emotionally; not treating that person as just anybody, but somebody,” said Deborah. “Taking the time, even if it’s just a few minutes, to learn about who that person is, what he or she values, how that individual has lived, and listening to his or her personal story then using that knowledge to interact with the person. Whether it’s a simple conversation or daily care giving, understanding his or her individuality and working with the person accordingly speaks volumes to your empathy, compassion, and concern. Don’t make other people fit who you are and what you know; meet them were they are. My mom taught me that when you help someone, it isn’t much help if you do a job your way; it’s only truly helpful if you do it the other person’s way. Doing so shows the individual you value him or her – dignity.”
Keep in mind that human dignity is usually associated with a person’s self-worth. How do you show respect to others to value their dignity?
Care-Giving requires patience; empathy; and knowledge
People who become frail; ill; injured; or possess a cognitive impairment involves family and friends — emotionally; physically; and financially.
I honor what you are doing.
Raymond Lavine
Gig Harbor, Washington
Comment by Raymond Lavine — January 3, 2011 @ 11:10 am
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